What is a Chastity Cage?
If you’re a new sissy, you’re probably wondering “What is a chastity cage?” and why are sissies so obsessed with them. A chastity cage is a type of sex toy that is a cage placed around the testicles and head of the penis that prevents an erection. People with penises, not just sissies, wear them for a variety of reasons, but usually related to submission.
How Does a Chastity Cage Work?
To break the question “What is a chastity cage?” down further, a chastity cage is generally made of three parts. The first part is a cock ring that holds the chastity cage around the testicles. Then there’s the actual cage that goes over the head and shaft of the soft penis and attaches to the cock ring. Then, to keep the two pieces together, a lock either goes inside the chastity cage or through a clip in front.
There are many different male chastity cage designs from ones that just hold everything in place to nub or flat cages that push the head and shaft back into the body. Likewise, chastity cages come in many materials ranging from cheap plastics to different types of metal and silicone. Wearing a chastity cage should never cause pain or actual discomfort when worn and sized correctly.
Why Do People Wear Chastity Cages?
Men, transwomen, and non-binary people who wear chastity cages typically do so while participating in some type of BDSM-related kink or lifestyle. Though cages don’t have to be worn in conjunction with a play partner, often chastity cages are used when a domme will “lock up” their sub for purposes of orgasm control. The domme controls when their partner will cum and creates conditions for their release.
Couples may also use cages to spice up their relationship whether just for a night or longer duration. With regular masturbation out of the question and sex not necessarily a guarantee, the build-up towards being unlocked can enhance pleasure as it’s repeatedly denied until the cock is set free.
Using chastity cages with a partner also helps build trust and communication between partners. The partner whose penis is caged has to rely on their other partner for sexual gratification and they have to communicate about how and when a penis is freed.
Why Do Sissies Like Chastity Cages?
Wearing a cage is not a requirement of being a sissy, even if being “permanently caged” is often a fantasy you’ll find on Sissy Twitter and Reddit. I crossdressed and feminized myself and with partners for years without ever knowing what a chastity cage was or what they looked like.
When I decided to buy a chastity cage during my sissification journey, it was really to see what all the hype was about, and after I put it on I immediately understood. Locking away your cock instantly makes you feel more feminine without seeing something dangling between your legs. Wearing lingerie with a cage looks a lot cuter too.
Not only does the denial aspect help you get hornier and into a sissy space, the chastity cage also helps you focus on different types of pleasure. While wearing the cage you still want to cum, but your mind focuses more on the sensory experience of being feminine and how much fun it is to suck cock and be penetrated. And if you’re lucky, you may experience the elusive sissygasm!
Be Safe If Starting Chastity
Wearing a chastity cage isn’t for everyone and that’s fine! You do not have to wear one to consider yourself a sissy, either. If you do decide to try out a male chastity cage:
- Make Sure It Fits: a cage should be snug, but not cause continual pain or discomfort. If the cage is too small it could cause serious injury. Remove immediately if you experience any swelling, redness, or anything unusual.
- Keep Yourself Clean: even if you decide to be caged for longer periods, you need to be able to clean your penis and testicles regularly to prevent bacteria buildup and infections.
- Have a Spare Key: having a key holder is one of the fun parts of chastity, but at least have a key that’s somewhat accessible in case of emergencies. Some people like to freeze a spare key in a block of ice so they can’t easily unlock if they’re tempted but still can get access.
